Stop Comparing and Start Aspiring When It Comes to Others

It’s easy to fall victim to the comparison game. Your coworker gets a promotion or your friend loses 10 pounds and all you can think about is how you didn’t. The joy you may have for that person is suffocated by the jealousy and pain you may feel that it wasn’t you that achieved those things. Comparing yourself to others is not only detrimental to your self-esteem, but it can be incredibly draining and unhealthy. Instead of wondering why all of the good things happen to everyone else, instead focus on celebrating their accomplishments as something for you to aspire to. Sounds almost impossible to do, right? I used to feel the same way, but trust me, it’s not impossible. In fact, it’s just a matter of looking at the bright side! Define Your Personal Goals and Stick to Them If you’re in the habit of comparing yourself to others, you probably end up doing it in all situations. Take career, for example. Your friend gets a promotion in her marketing job at a big company. When y

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